افهم الآخرين..قصة وفائدة

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قصة وعبرة




افهم الأخرين، و عبر عن فكرتك بوضوح (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
في إحدى ليالي الخريف أثناء إبحار إحدى السفن الحربية (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
وقف القبطان مشهور ينظر في ليلة مقمرة إلى صفاء النجوم ويحدق في الكواكب اللامعة (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
ويسمع صوت هدير محركات سفينته التي تمخر عباب البحر. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
وفجأة رأى من بعيد ضوءاً يسطع وهذا الضوء يتجه مباشرة إليه . (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
انتبه إليه القبطان مشهور وأخذ يتابعه فشعر بالخطر لأنه إن كان سفينة (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
سيصطدمان معا ويغرقان ويكونان بخبر كان (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
فما كان منه إلا أن صاح بصوته الأجش المرتفع : (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
أرسلوا رسالة إلى ذلك القبطان وقولوا له أن يتجه شمالا 30 درجة وكان ما أراد. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
وبعد لحظة جاءه الجواب يا سعادة القبطان مشهور لماذا لا تتجه أنت نحو اليسار 30 درجة (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
فأنا لا أستطيع و ننصحك بتغيير الاتجاه بمقدار 180 درجة. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
القبطان مشهور: قولوا له أن ينحرف هو بمقدار 30 درجة أما عن سفينتي فليس ذلك من شأنهم… (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
وبعد لحظة جاءه الرد :لماذا يا قبطان مشهور تجادل و تصر على إصدار الأوامر ؟ (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
دون أن تقوم أنت بتفادي التصادم بالمقدار ذاته؟ (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
وهنا غضب القبطان ثم قال : قولوا له إذا لم ينحرف هو سأقصفه بالمدافع. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
وبعد لحظة جاءه الرد يا قبطان مشهور (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
نحن حقل بترول عائم! و لا نستطيع الحركة !!! احترس !! (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
لكن الوقت قد استنفد في هذا الحوار اللاسلكي غير المثمر واصطدمت السفينة بالحقل البترولي. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
و الدرس الذي نتعلمه من هذه القصة (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
هو ألا تفترض أن الاخرين لهم مثل مواصفاتك و عندهم نفس أفكارك. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
و أن ما نفهمه جيدا نعبّر عنه بوضوح و تأتي الكلمات لتقوله و تشرحه بسهولة. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
و حتى نفهم الاخرين، و نفسر مواقفهم نحتاج (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
1- أن نفكر بعقولهم هم لا بعقولنا نحن. وأن نقيس الأمور من خلال منطلقاتهم هم لا منطلقاتنا نحن. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
2- أن نفرق بين موقفنا من رأيهم و طريقة تفكيرهم، وبين تفسيرنا لمواقفهم. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)
3- أن تتسع صدورنا لمن يخالفنا الراي و إلا فلن نغير انفسنا. (http://sites.google.com/site/mtncc1/groupMtncc)

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