شاهدت ابنها يحضر فلما اباحيا ماذا فعلت؟؟

[واعد]

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم





حكمة تربوية عظيمة لكل ام ولكل شخص




رأت في المنام .. إبنها يشعل أعواد كبريت .. ويقربها من عينيه .. حتى اصبحتا حمراوين ...




إستيقظت من نومها .. وهي تتعوذ من الشيطان الرجيم .. لكن لم يهدأ بالها وذهبت لغرفه إبنها .. الذي يبلغ السابعة عشر من عمره .. لتجده على شاشه الكومبيوتر ...


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وكان ضوء الشاشه ينعكس على النافذه .. ورأته يرى ما أفزعها حقا .. وأثار كل مخاوفها ...




رأته وهو يشاهد فلم إباحي .. على شاشه الكومبيوتر ...




أرادت أن تصرخ في وجهه .. لكنها آثرت الإنسحاب .. خاصه أنها دخلت بشكل خافت .. لم يلاحظه هو ...




رجعت إلى فراشها .. فكرت أن تخبر أباه .. ليتسلم مسوؤليه تأديب إبنه .. فكرت أن تقوم من فراشها وتقفل شاشه الكومبيوتر وتوبخه على فعلته وتعاقبه .. لكنها دعت الله أن يلهمها الصواب في الغد .. ونامت وهي تستعيذ بالله ...




وفي الصباح الباكر .. رأت إبنها يستعد للذهاب إلى المدرسة .. وكانا لوحدهما .. فوجدتها فرصه للحديث وسألته ...




عماد .. مارأيك في شخص جائع .. ماذا تراه يفعل حتى يشبع ؟؟؟




فأجابها بشكل بديهي .. يذهب إلى مطعم و يشتري شيئا ليأكله ...




فقالت له .. وإذا لم يكن معه مال لذلك ...




عندها صمت وكأنه فهم شيئا ما ...




فقالت له .. وإذا تناول فاتحا للشهيه .. ماذا تقول عنه ؟؟؟




فأجابها بسرعه .. أكيد إنه مجنون .. فكيف يفتح شهيته لطعام .. هو ليس بحوزته ...




فقالت له .. أتراه مجنون يا بني ؟؟؟




أجابها .. بالتأكيد يا أمي .. فهو كالمجروح .. الذي يرش على جرحه ملحا ...




فابتسمت وأجابته .. أنت تفعل مثل هذا المجنون يا ولدي ...




فقال لها متعجبا .. أنا يا امي !!!




فقالت له .. نعم .. برؤيتك لما يفتح شهيتك للنساء ...



عندها صمت وأطرق برأسه خجلا ...




فقالت له .. بني بل أنت مجنونا أكثر منه .. فهو فتح شهيته لشئ ليس معه .. وإن كان تصرفه غير حكيم .. ولكنه ليس

محرم ...




أما أنت ففتحت شهيتك لما هو محرم ..


ونسيت قوله تعالى : (قل للمؤمنين يغضوا من أبصارهم .. ويحفظوا فروجهم ..

ذلك ازكى لهم) ...






عندها دمعت عينا إبنها بحزن .. وقال لها حقا يا أمي .. أنا اخطأت .. وإن عاودت لمثل ذلك .. فأنا مجنون أكثر منه ..

بل وآثم أيضا .. أعدك بأني لن أكررها .






اعجبتني هذه القصة كثيرا لما فيها من اسلوب حكيم في التربية فاحببت ان انقلها لكم




Make sure you don't miss any opportunities to change yourself firstly & the world secondly.

Mohamed.

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شكرا للنقل الحكيم .... أعجبني أيضا تصرف الأم و كيف أنها صبرت على إبنها و كظمت غيضها منه و تفهمت أنه قبل أن يكون إبنها هو إنسان قد يخطأ و قد يطلب حاجته بالغلط ثم تجاوزت كل ذلك للدور المطلوب في الحقيقة و هو التوعية ....
جيد فعلا ...لكني بصراحة دخلت الموضوع لأني أعرف من هي في مثل صدمتها و حيرتها قبل أن تحدثه بما فهمه و خجل منه لأنها أمه....و لكن ما الحل لو كان ينكر أو يعتقد بأنه ليس شيئا يخجل منه ...

ما هو الحل لو كنت تشك فقط ثم تثبت لديك الأمر لكنك تعجز عن مصارحة ذلك الشخص لأنه كما قلت سينكر ... هل ستبقى معه عندما يفتح شاشة الكمبيوتر و ترافقه ؟
ليس حلا بالتأكيد ...
و إذا كان لهذه الأم سلطان ما على إبنها وله أب يخشاه أيضا فما الحل لمن لا سلطان لها و لا ما يهابه ؟
السكوت على المعصية و على هلاك من نحب أيضا ليس حلا..

أرجو من الإخوة و الأخوات التفاعل ... وددت أن يكون موضوعا نتبادل فيه الخبرات و النصائح و الحلول لو شئتم ....
و مشكور أخي واعد دوما مميز تدري .

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جزاك الله كل خير

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