زوج يعشق زوجته بجنون والسر ... ؟؟؟ [الأرشيف]

SOUILAH Mohamed

27-05-2011, 01:23 PM

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زوج يعشق زوجته بجنون والسر..؟؟؟

هناك سيّدة عجوز ذكيّة حكيمة يحبّها زوجها كـثيراً

حـتى أنه يـحلو له أن ينـشد لها أبيات الحـب و الغـرام !! و كلـما تـقدّما في
السـن ازداد حـبهما و سـعادتهما... !!

وعندما سـؤلت تلك الـمرأة عن سر سـعادتها الدائـمة ؟!!

هل هو المـهارة في إعداد الطــعام؟؟؟

أم الجــمال؟؟؟

أم إنجــاب الأولاد ؟؟؟

أم غيـر ذلك ؟؟؟

قـالت :
الحـصول على الـسعادة الزوجـية بعد توفيق الله سبحانه بـيد
الـمرأة .. فالمـرأة تستطــيع أن تجعل من بيـتها جـنّة وارفة الظـلال أو جـهنّم
مسـتعرة النـيران !!

لا تقــولي المال! فكثير من النـساء الغنـيات تعـيسات و هرب منـهن أزواجهـن …
و لا الأولاد فهنـاك من النسـاء من أنجبن 10 صـبيان زوجها
يهينها و لا يحـبها أو يطلـقها ...

و الكـثير منهن ماهرات في الطـبخ، فالواحدة منـهن تطـبخ طوال الـنهار
و مع ذلك تـشكو سوء معاملة زوجـها و قلة احترامه لها ... !!

- إذن ما هو الســر ؟؟؟ ماذا كنت تعـملين عند حدوث المــشاكل مع زوجـك ؟؟؟

قـالـت : عـندما يغضب و يثور زوجــي
– و قد كان عصـبياً
– كـنت ألجأ إلى الصـمت المطـبق بكل احــترام ...
إياك و الصــمت المـصاحب لنـظرة
سـخرية و لو بالعـين لأن الرجل ذكـي و يفهــمها !!

- لــم لا تخــرجي من الــغرفــة ؟؟

قالــت : إياك .. قد يــظن أنك تــهربين منه و لا تريديـن سـماعه , عليك بالصـمت
و موافقـته على ما يقول حتى يهدأ ثم بعد ذلك أقول له هل انتـهيت
ثم أخرج لأنه سيتـعب و بحاجة لـلراحة بعد الكـلام و الصـراخ ...

و أخـرج من الـغرفة أكمل أعـمالي المـنزلية و شؤون أولادي و يـظل
بمـفرده و قد أنهـكته الحرب التي شـنها علي .

- مـاذا تفـعلين هل تلجـئين إلى أســلوب المـــقاطعة فلا تكلمــينه لمدة أيـام أو أســـبوع ؟

لا إياك و تلك العـادة السيئة فهي سـلاح ذو حدين، عــندما تقاطعين
زوجـك أسبـوعاً قد يكون ذلك صعباً عليه في الـبداية و يحاول
أن يكلـمك و لكن مع الأيـام سوف يتــعود على ذلك و إن قاطــعته

أسـبوع قاطعك أسـبوعين !!
عليك أن تعوديه على أنك الـهواء الذي
يستنـشقه و الـماء الذي يشـربه و لا يسـتغني عنه ....كوني كالـهواء
الرقــيق و إياك و الريح الشـديدة .

- ومــاذا تفعــلين بعـد ذلك ؟؟

بعد ساعتـين أو أكـثر أضع له كوباً من العصـير أو فنـجاناً من القهــوة
و أقول له تفـضل اشـرب , لأنه فـعلاً محـتاج إليه وأكلّمه بشـكل عـادي...

فيصرّ على سـؤالي هل أنت غاضــبة ؟؟

فأقــول لا !

فيبدأ بالاعــتذار عن كلامه الــقاسي و يسمــعني الكلام الجــميل.

- وهل تصــدقين اعتــذاره و كلامه الجــميل ؟؟

طـبعاً ... لأني أثق بنفــسي و لست غبـية ...!!!
هل تريدين مني تصــديق كلامه وهو غاضــب و تكذيــبه و هو هـادئ ؟؟؟!!!
إن الإســلام لا يقر طلاق الــغاضب ...و هو طلاق!! فكــيف ماحــصل معي أنا ؟؟؟

- فقــيل لـها ...و كرامـتك ؟؟

قـــالـت : أي كرامــة ؟ !!

كرامتــك ألا تصدقي أي كلـمة جارحة من إنسـان غاضب

و أن تصــدقي كلامه عندما يكون هادئــاً ..

أســامحه فوراً لأني قد نســيت كل مابــدر منـــه وقــت الغضـــب وأدركت أهــمية
ســماع الكـلام المفيــد

إذن ســر الســعادة الزوجــية عــقل الــمرأة و مــربط تلك السـعادة لسانها

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