سؤال

[rimus]

ما هو الوقت المناسب لكي تقول البنت للرجل ارواح تخطبني’؟ مع العلم و كتجربة خاصة عندما تقول الفتاة للرجل هذه الكلمة تجعله ينفر منها

[رحيل]

ما هو الوقت المناسب لكي تقول البنت للرجل ارواح تخطبني’؟ مع العلم و كتجربة خاصة عندما تقول الفتاة للرجل هذه الكلمة تجعله ينفر منها

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله وبركاته

إن الوقت المناسب بل الضروري الذي يجب أن تقول فيه المرأة للرجل ""اخطبني"" هو نفس اللحظة التي يخبرها فيه أنها تعجبه أو أنه يريد أن يكونا على علاقة....
نعم أختي...هكذا تقطعين الشك باليقين إن كان يريد اللهو أو الجد...
أما نفور الرجل من المرأة التي تطلب منه خطبتها فهذا دليل عدم جديته معها...

[عبد المنتقم]

ما هو الوقت المناسب لكي تقول البنت للرجل ارواح تخطبني’؟ مع العلم و كتجربة خاصة عندما تقول الفتاة للرجل هذه الكلمة تجعله ينفر منها
البنت الجريئة التي تريد حفظ سمعتها و شرفها و تريد لاهلها الخير و لا تنوي سوءا و شرا بهم تطلب من الشاب التقدم لخطبتها من اول وهلة و بعد التعارف طبعا و ليس بعد الابحار في سنوات من العلاقات التي غابلا ما تؤدي مع مرور الوقت الى تذبذب في العلاقة بينهما خاصة ان كانت البيئة المحيطة بحبهما مليئة بالاشواك الدامية
حسب ضني و رأيي يخطر ببال اي بنت كانت هذا السؤال في اول برهة عندما يتعارفان لكنها غالبا ما تتمهل لتكتشف ابن آدم ذلك الذي تريد منه ان يكون شريك حياتها
و تهرب الرجل احيانا من هذا السؤال يكون غالبا عندما تكون لعلاقة طويلة المدى مع حبيبته و يكتشف فيها و في شخصها نقاط ضعف لا يحها هو
اما ان لم تخرج علاقتهما عن الحيز الاخلاقي فسيطلب منها هو الزواج قبلها طبعا

شكرا اخي على الموضوع بارك الله فيك اخي

[cessina]

yji directement l dar babaha yatlabha man ba3d yahdar m3aha ida hab normalement haka w ida matfahmouch koul wahad yrouh f hal sabilou

[إخلاص]

yji directement l dar babaha yatlabha man ba3d yahdar m3aha ida hab normalement haka w ida matfahmouch koul wahad yrouh f hal sabilou

أنا مع ردّك غاليتي
فليأت البيت من بابه الواسع إن كان فعلا يريد الزّواج لا شيئا آخر
تحيّة تليق

[سليم يلل]

البنت هي ايضا بشر لها قلب وعقل وعيون...وربما تسقط في حب رجل ما وتتمناه زوجا لها

ففي هذه الحالة أظن أن احسن طريقة هي الاستعانة بوسيط ذكي وحكيم , يقوم باختبار ذاك الرجل ليعرف ميولاته والصفات والخصائص التي يريدها في زوجته المستقبلية وإذا رأى هذا الوسيط أن هذه الصفات تنطبق على تلك البنت فيمكنه أن يدل الرجل على تلك البنت او يشير عليه بالتقدم لخطبتها

والله أعلم

[مايا علاق]

بالنسبة لي لاداعي للعلاقات العابرة تحت حجة التعارف من ارادك اختي فعلا فسياتي مباشرة لخطبتك ومن دون سابق انذار لانه(وليدحلال ويحوس على الحلال)اما تلك التسلية العابرة بحجة التعارف فهي مضيعة للوقت ومعصية للخالق وخيانة للاهل وانا اوافق اختي رحيل اذ من اول كلمة يقولها اطلبي منه الخطبة

[masrour farah]

ليس علاقة عابرة ، ولكن تعارف بريء داخل
المؤسسة ، تعارف قد لايثير الإنتباه ، زميل مع
زميلته داخل مكان العمل يتبادلون الأفكار والأراء
بينهما وبين باقي الموظفين والموظفات في إطار
الإحترام المتبادل ، كما نتبادلها في هذا المنتديات .

[الدكتورة]

السلام عليكم و رحمة الله و بركاته
بداية:
ان تتجرأ فتاة لتخبر رجلا عن اعجابها به و عن رغبتها في نكاحه فهذا امر كبير عليها و جرأة عظيمة منها و ان فعلته لتقول انها فعلته اقتداءا بالسيدة خديجة رضي الله عنها فأقول لها لا يا ابنتي انت مخطئة فهي لم تفعل ذلك بل استعملت الواسطة في ذلك و لم تعرض هي نفسهابل بعثت من يعرضها على النبي صلى الله عليه و سلم دون ان تبدي انها هي من ارسلته له ...

وبعد:
ان وصلت الفتاة المعاصرة الى هذه الدرجة بأن تفكر ان تطلب او تعرض الخطبة على شاب معين يعني هذا ان العلاقة بينهما قريبة او على انهما على علاقة غرامية او لربما كما ذكرتم علاقة عمل
لكن هل هذا يسمح لها بفتح موضوع كهذا؟ لا على الأقل حفاظا على كرامتها

ان رأت الفتاة من نفسها اعجابا لشاب معين لخلقه او دينيه او اي امر فيه فلا ارى ان عليها التجرأ لطلب يده فهذا من مهامه هو
وانما تستعمل الواسطة كصديقة لها تثق فيها او كأي انسان تثق فيه ينبه ذاك الشاب عليها كأن يقول:
هل تنوي الزواج؟ ما رأيك بفلانة فهي ذات خلق ودين و و و
وتترك الامر للواسطة فلربما الشاب ذاك يبادل الاعجاب للفتاة و يريدها
ولربما لم يكن منتبها لها و حصل الانتباه كما في قصة صديقة لي
وضعت واسطة لتخبر احدا برغبتها في نكاحه فاخره الرجل لماذا لا تخطب فلانة فرد الشاب نعم يا ريت ان كانت تقبل فانا اقبل
و فعلا تزوجا و كلاهما محفوظ ماء الوجه
او يعرض عنها بالقول انه لا ينوي الزواج او انه لا تعجبه مثيلتها
وهكذا لا يكون فيه جرح لشخصية الفتاة ولا اقلال من كرامتها


لا تطلب هي يد الرجل بل بالواسطة ان ارادت
والله الموفق لكل خير

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