الرجولة الصحيحة

[أبو محمود]

الرجولة الصحيحة



يختلف الناس بشكل كبير حول مفهوم الرجولة الصحيحة، فمنهم من يرى أن الرجولة الصحيحة يعبر عنها بكبر الشوارب، وبعضهم يراها قوة احمرار العيون، وبعضهم يرى أنها قوة العضلات وإرهاب الناس لإرغامهم على تلبية رغباتهم وان كانت جائرة أو منحرفة ، وبعضهم يرى أنها القدرة والإسراف في معاشرة النساء، وبعضهم يرى أن الرجولة القدرة على ظلم الناس و إلحاق الأذى بهم بحق أو بباطل، والبعض يرى أنها القسوة على الزوجات والأولاد، وغيرها من التفاسير الشائعة لمفهوم الرجولة عند الناس،


فهل هي كذلك؟



ليس الأمر كذلك ، إن الرجولة الحقيقية، معنى كبير تمتزج فيه معاني السمو الروحي والرحمة والعفو عند المقدرة، والبذل والسخاء في الفقر والغنى، إنها مزيج من الغيرة الشرعية على العرض وعلى محارم الله، وفيها معاني الكمال الأخلاقي الذي من شانه الترفع عن سفاسف الأخلاق والتمسك بأخلاق الكبار، ومعالي الأمور.



الرجولة الحقيقية، رحمة ولين، كرم وبذل، غيرة وشرف، نجدة ونصرة للمظلومين ، وليست الرجولة الحقيقة إن يتركك الناس اتقاء شرك، فهؤلاء شرار الناس وليسوا خيارهم، إنها بر بالوالدين وصلة للأرحام وإحسان إلى الجيران والمقربين ومواساة للفقراء والمحرومين.



ولم أجد أجمل معنى للرجولة من قوله تعالى :



( مِنَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ رِجَالٌ صَدَقُوا مَا عَاهَدُوا اللَّهَ عَلَيْهِ فَمِنْهُمْ مَنْ قَضَى نَحْبَهُ وَمِنْهُمْ مَنْ يَنْتَظِرُ وَمَا بَدَّلُوا تَبْدِيلًا (23) ) الأحزاب




وقوله : ( في بُيُوتٍ أَذِنَ اللَّهُ أَنْ تُرْفَعَ وَيُذْكَرَ فِيهَا اسْمُهُ يُسَبِّحُ لَهُ فِيهَا بِالْغُدُوِّ وَالْآصَالِ (36) رِجَالٌ لَا تُلْهِيهِمْ تِجَارَةٌ وَلَا بَيْعٌ عَنْ ذِكْرِ اللَّهِ وَإِقَامِ الصَّلَاةِ وَإِيتَاءِ الزَّكَاةِ يَخَافُونَ يَوْمًا تَتَقَلَّبُ فِيهِ الْقُلُوبُ وَالْأَبْصَارُ (37) ) النور



وقول الرسول الخاتم ، عليه الصلاة والسلام ، عن عائشة : ( خيركم خيركم لأهله وأنا خيركم لأهلي ) حديث صحيح ،



وقوله يوما لأصحابه : ( ما تقولون في الصرعة ؟ ) قال : قلت : الذي لا يصرعه الرجال قال : ( الصرعة الذي يمسك نفسه عند الغضب ) حديث صحيح.



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