نظرية الموزة

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نظرية الموزة
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عندما كنت طفلا، أعطتني أمي موزة لآكلها، فوضعتها في جيب حقيبتي المدرسية..
وعند استراحة الظهر في المدرسة فتحت حقيبتي لآكل الموزة فوجدتها
مسحوقة تماماً.. تركت الموزة مكانها على أمل أن أزيلها من الحقيبة لاحقاً..
لكني، وبسبب عطلة نهاية الأسبوع، نسيتها.. وعندما فتحت جيب الحقيبة وجدت
الموزة وقد أصابها العفن..
أغلقت الجيب، ولم أخبر أحداً.. وبقيت الموزة سرّي الدفين لثلاثة أيام إضافية إلى أن أصبحت رائحة الحقيبة لا تطاق..
حتى رفاقي كانوا يتسائلون من أين تنبعث
الرائحة الكريهة في الصف مما زاد في إحراجي..
فقررت عندها مواجهة الوضع وقمت بإزالة آثار الموزة المتعفّنة ونظّفت حقيبتي وأنهيت المشكلة

هذا ما يحصل معنا تماماً..
نسحق مشاعرنا من جرّاء اختبار مؤلم أو صدمة نتعرّض لها..
فنبقيها مخبّئة في جيب حقيبتنا الشعورية..
ولا نخبر أحداً عنها..
فتصاب مشاعرنا بالتلف..
رغم إنكارنا، وتجاهلنا لها، وإحكام الإغلاق عليها..
لكن "رائحة" اختبارنا المؤلم، الذي قمنا بدفنه داخلنا، تنتقل من داخل "حقيبة" مشاعرنا إلى الخارج..
فتحوّلنا إلى أشخاص مضطربين، محبطين، نشعر بالكره،
بالحقد، بالذنب، أو بالظلم..
الحل الوحيد لهذه المشكلة هو مواجهة الأمر.. وفتح "حقيبتنا" الداخلية ونتظيفها وإزالة بقايا مشاعرنا وأحاسيسنا المتعفنة..
كيف؟
بالشفافية، بالاعتراف أمام أنفسنا وأمام من نثق بهم بأن لدينا مشكلة حقيقية داخلنا..
فالكبت والإنكار.. ولفلفة المشاعر الدفينة والظهور أمام الآخرين بأن كل شيء معنا هو على ما يرام..
وبأننا مسيطرون على الوضع، لا تنفع، بل تُفاقِم المشكلة..
فمهما كانت محرجة آلية البوح بما في داخلنا، تكون أسهل بعشرات الأضعاف من أن نبقى سجّانين دائمين لآلامنا الدائمة..
فلنفتح "حقائبنا"، ولننظّفها من العفن..
ولندع نور الشمس يدخل عتمتها..
هذه هي "نظرية الموزة" التي طبّقتها على حقيبتي المدرسية..
فلنحاول تطبيقها على "الموز" المتعفّن في "حقائبنا" الداخلية الفكرية، والعاطفية..
ولنبدأ معاً حملة النظافة .

[djazayri]

ما أبلغ هذه الكلمات المليئة بالحكمة...
حقّاً، الشفافية تحمي بواطن نفوسنا من التعفّن...
بارك الله فيك،واصلي...

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فعلا اختي ريتال نحتاج الجراة والصدق في مواجهة كل شيئ.
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اعجبتني هذه النظرية بارك الله فيك على الطرح المميز و القيّم

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لك الشكر والتقدير
على ردك الطيب
جزاك الله الف خير

[عبد المنتقم]

طبيعة الانسان يكبت اسراره في نفسه خيفة من الاحراج امام الناس
خاصة منها العاطفية او الاسرار التي تمس الغير
فالخوف من الفضيحة و من الانكشاف امام الناس يجعل الواحد منا يخفي اسراره
في محفظة قيل انها القلب
لكن دائما و غابا ما يجد الانسان شخص قريب منه يثق فيه يساعده
على تحمل عبئ تلك الاسرار
فاعتقد انو ما في شفافية في اقوال الناس و افعالهم
لهيك طبيعة الانسان و عقله غامضين جدا و يصعب
تحليل شخصية كل انسان

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