قالت الام ماذا اقول لك ــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــــ ادخـــــــــل وشـــــوف

[جمال حسن]

فتح الابن رساله من امه
ابوك يرحمه الله كان رجل صالح
انظر لقوله تعالى: { أَلَمْ تَرَ كَيْفَ ضَرَبَ اللّهُ مَثَلاً كَلِمَةً


طَيِّبَةً كَشَجَرةٍ طَيِّبَةٍ أَصْلُهَا ثَابِتٌ وَفَرْعُهَا فِي السَّمَاء
تُؤْتِي أُكُلَهَا كُلَّ حِينٍ بِإِذْنِ رَبِّهَا وَيَضْرِبُ اللّهُ الأَمْثَالَ
لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ } إبراهيم:24-25

قال -الربيع بن أنس- كلمة طيبة هذا مثل الإيمان
فالإيمان الشجرة الطيبة وأصلها الثابت الذي لا
يزول الإخلاص فيه وفرعه في السماء خشية الله


قالت الام ...... ماذا اقول لك !!!!!!! ولدي ,,,,,,ابني
ابوك تركك وانت طفل رضيع انا اسفه انا الغلطانه لان

لم اعلمك كيف تكون ابن صالح ......

لم اعلمك من صغرك احنرام الكبير

لم اعلمك من صغرك ان الحياه هات وخد

لم اعلمك من صغرك الاعتماد علي النفس

لم اعلمك حب لاخيك ما تحبه لنفسك

لم اعلمك واعودك ان طلباتك لها حدود

لم اعلمك اشياء كثيرة بسبب حبي لك


اتعوت ان تاخذ فقط ولا تعطي
احذت حناني ..... اخذت اموالي
وتركتني اعاني من الوحده والفقر
وتركتني في سجن نفسي انتدم
علي جهلي في تربيتك ولم اسمع
نصيحه من كان اكبر مني


اليك بعض النصائح ان عملتها مع اولادك
لن يضعوك كما وضعتني في دار المسنين
وان لم تعمل بها اعلم كما تدين تدان


علمك اولادك في الصغر

واتركهم في الكبر
لان تعليم الصغار يكون كالنقش علي الحجر
اي صعب نسيانه والصغير دائما يسمع ويقلد الكبير
فاذا كانت تصرفاتك حسنه ابنك يكون مثلك مثل
المواظبه علي الصلاه والصوم
اذا كانت تصرفاتك سيئه ابنك يكون مثلك مثل
الكلام بصوت مرتفع او شرب السجائر او استخدام
الفاظ بذيئه



عود ابنك علي ان الحياة هات وخذ
المعني عندما ياخذ منك فلوس لشراء ما يلزمه
علمه ان يعطي صدقات لكل محتاج اولا من معك
ثم احعله يعطي من مصروفه الي ان يتعود



لا تلبي جميع طلباته مهما
كنت ميسور الحال لانك بذلك تعودة علي ان
لا يحرم نفسه من كل ما تشتهي من طلبات
وهو صغير تقتصر علي الملابس والاكل واللعب
وهو كبير نفسه تشتهي المحرمات من خمر ونساء

ويتعود ان الحياة ليس بها عسر وانه لابد من الحصول
علي طلبه ولو ادي ذلك الي اعمال تغضب الله مثلك
عندما وضعتني في دار المسنين لاني لم اوافق
علي البذخ والاصراف علي عرسك فتخلصت مني


علمه ان يحنرمك ويحترم امه
بان لا تتحادلوا في تربيته امامه فمثلا ان عاقبت
الام الطفل يوافق الاب علي العقاب امام الابن
وانتم بعيد عن اعين الابن تفاهموا كبف يكون العقاب



علمه حب الاخرين وذلك
بزياره المريض او اعطاء الفقراء ملابسه القديمه
وان يصل رحمه وان يعطف علي الاقل منه من الضعفاء


ياولدي الحياه تجارب واسمع تجارب غيرك وشوف
اخطاء من قبلك لتتعلم كيف تجعل اولادك صالحين

وانت الوحيد من ينتفع بالتربيه الصالحه او الفاسده
لانك انت التي تزرع وتحصد اما زرع يحبه الناس وبراعوه
او زرع يدوس عليه الناس ويكرهوه

[karima.t]

جزاك الله كل خير

[لونجة بنت السلطان]

يقولك المثل: كما تدين تدان
الحمد لله يا ربي ولدينا علمونا كل ما هو خير و مهما درت ما نرجعلهمش الجميل

اللهم حرم وجه والديا النار و ارزفهما الجنة بغير حساب يا اكرم الاكرمين

نسال الله الذرية الصالحة

شكرا اخي جمال موضوع رائع
تحياتي العطرة

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