الزواج مقبرة الحب....من المسؤووووووول....؟؟؟؟

[دمعة حزين]

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هل الزواج مقبرة الحب

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أصبح اليوم معتقد شائع لدى الكثيرين ..... بعد الزواج ليس هناك ضرورة لان يقول كل طرف للآخر انه يحبه .. فذاك امر بديهي طالما هما متزوجان .... رويداً رويداً حتى ينسى الطرفان وتأخذهما مشاغل الحياة اليومية والاولاد والاوضاع المادية ووووووو ....

- في فترة الخطوبة ... حب اسطوري وسهر وغزل وكلام ووعود .... ومكا لماااات مطوله على الهاتف عن الحب وعن الغرام

- المراة بازدواجيتها المعهودة .... تريد ان تسمع كل يوم كل ثانية " احبك ... حبيبتي روحي حياتي ..... وغيره " وهذا من ابسط حقوقها ... وبنفس الوقت هناك من تهمل نفسها وزوجها مشغولة في المطبخ واعمال البيت حتى ينسى زوجها أي رومانسية سابقة ....


وادى ليأس الكثيرات من الحب .. اصبح من المعروف انه لن يدوم مهما حاولت الزوجة .. فالزوج يحب زوجته بطريقة انه يحترمها ويقدرها أو بالطريقة التي تناسبه و تناسب تفكيره.... وهي تفضل ان يحبها لمجرد الحب كما حب المراهقين وليس كحب الرجال .....

فهل فعلا ان الزوج اصابته نوبة فتور عاطفي مما يصل الى تهديد العاطفة بين الزوجين ....؟؟؟؟

ام ان الزواج اصبح فعلا مقبره للحب.... أنا لست مع هذا التفكير فمجرد كلمة مقبره في نظري تعني الموت نعم فمن يذهب الى القبر فهو ميت ...؟؟اذا هم من يزفوه الى قبره اعني هنا الحب

هل هذا هو الحال الذي اصبح عليه الزواج بعد مرور عدد من السنوات اكانت كثيره او قليله في الكثير من العقول ....!! ولماذا هذا التفكير الا واقعي و أشدد على السؤال ...؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟
ام ان مشاغل الحياة هي الجاني الاساسي والمتهم في موت هذا الحب ....



فهل يعقل أن الرجل ينضج بعد الزواج والمرأة لا ؟ .... هل المراة هي فقط من يبحث ويناضل ويطالب ببقاء الحب بعد الزواج .... أم ان من الرجال من يؤمن بالحب بعد الزواج ؟؟؟؟؟


فلو كان الزواج مقبرة الحب ......... فمن المسؤول ؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟؟

[Hichem Phyto]

المسؤول الاول هي مشاغل الدنيا التي لا تنتهي وهذا ينعكس على الرابطة العاطفية للزوجين مما يقلل مستوى العلاقة الى ادنى مستوى لها على العموم الا انه لا يلغيها تماما اذا كانت هناك مودة و رحمة و هذين الشيئين يضمنان عدم موت الحب بين الزوجين لكن لن يبقى كما كان لان هذا طبيعي جدا بما انهم يرون بعضهم البعض يوميا

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